| Location | Chelmsford Essex |
| Age | 40 years |
| Cause of Death | Suicide |
| Date of Birth | 13/04/1968 |
| Date of Death | 09/10/2008 |
| Visitors | 1,655 since 04/11/2008 |
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This is for my beutiful mum, She had two daughters, me (Eleanor,16) and my sister (Hannah,19). My
mum also had a large family, 6 sisters, 1 brother and many nieces and nephews, we all thought we
understood my mum, when my granmum died in september 07 there was no-one left who my mum was truely
close to, except a boyfriend and her best friend jo (my godmother). My mum never let anyone know how
she was feeling, and that was the problem. We all have our plusses and minuses and so did my mummy,
and i will love her, think of her and hold on to her for every day until i see her again. Like a
rare and beutiful butterfly she flew away to early.
On the Day You Died
The world got colder on the day you died
Everything around was drab and dull
You brought such warmth to the world around
Your soul was kind and rare and beautiful.
My world just stopped on the day you died
I can't fathom life without you here
Why is it fate can bring bonds so deep,
And then fate can make life disappear?
I'll always remember the day you died
And that raw aching hole- you were gone
Time dulled the pain and I longed for it back
It seemed a betrayal to move on.
I wasn't prepared for the day you died
Your life slipped away much too soon
And even as time lets me laugh once again
A piece of my heart went with you.
AUTHOR:UNKNOWN
GONE TOO SOON!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
LIKE A COMET,,,,,,BLAZING CROSS THE EVENING SKY,
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GONE TOO SOON!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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LIKE A RAINBOW,FADING IN THE COMING NIGHT,
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GONE TOO SOON!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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SHINING,SPARKLING,AND SPLENDIDLY BRIGHT.
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HERE ONE DAY.,,.GONE ONE NIGHT.
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GONE TOO SOON!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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LIKE A CLOTH OF SUNLIGHT ON A CLOUDY AFTERNOON.
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GONE TOO SOON!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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LIKE A CASTLE BUILT UPON A SANDY BEACH.
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GONE TOO SOON!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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LIKE A PERFECT LOVELY FLOWER, THAT IS
JUST BEYOND YOU"RE REACH.
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GONE TOO SOON!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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BORN TO LIVE IN SHEER DELIGHT,
HERE ONE DAY,GONE BY NIGHT.
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GONE TOO SOON!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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LIKE A SUNSET DAZZLED BY THE RISING MOON.
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GONE TOO SOON.
[A MICHAEL JACKSONG SONG].R.I.P..
R.I.P.ANGEL.XXXX
just to let you know your not forgotten
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so sorry xxxxxx
I see the countless Christmas trees
around the world below
With tiny lights, like Heaven's stars,
reflecting on the snow
The sight is so spectacular,
please wipe away the tear
For I am spending Christmas
with Jesus Christ this year.
I hear the many Christmas songs
that people hold so dear
But the sounds of music can't compare
with the Christmas choir up here.
I have no words to tell you,
the joy their voices bring,
For it is beyond description,
to hear the angels sing.
I know how much you miss me,
I see the pain inside your heart.
But I am not so far away,
We really aren't apart.
So be happy for me, dear ones,
You know I hold you dear.
And be glad I'm spending Christmas
with Jesus Christ this year.
I sent you each a special gift,
from my heavenly home above.
I sent you each a memory
of my undying love.
After all, love is a gift
more precious than pure gold.
was always most important
the stories Jesus told.
Please love and keep each other,
my Father said to do.
I can't count the blessing or love
has for each of you.
So have a Merry Christmas
and Wipe away that tear
Remember, I am spending Christmas
with Jesus Christ this year
Bless you.
My brother took his own life on 28th sept 08 it has destroyed our family with grief.
We are going through all the emotions at the moment just as you must be.
The question we keep asking is why?
Think of your mum as at peace now & she has no more worries & is in a better place....thats what i do with my brother.
Godbless you & your sister.
xxxxx
Poem I Read AT my Mums Funeral
This Poem I Wrote For My Mum, who I wish was still here
I am going to try and read it loud and clear,
My mum loved the poems I wrote in the past
I am hoping this one will make that love last,
I feel everyone should know
How I’ll miss my mum so,
And how hard it will be
For my sister and me,
To accept the loss of our mum
As we all know you only ever have one,
She will always love us; she will care for us from above
She will send us starlight and rainbows to remind us of her love,
Our memories are not all happy, some are full of strife
But we are all here to remember my beautiful mums life,
During my mums time here, she meant a lot to us all
That’s why we are here, to say goodbye, at her funeral,
So confused, such a young lady none of us can explain
What went wrong? We wont know, no one could feel her pain,
I wish I could go back and change
My mum’s actions that seem so strange,
Id makes it different, right from the start
Relieve the hurt I feel in my heart
I love my mum so much, and I will forever
I will never forget, the last day we spent together,
Running around Thorpe Park like total made men
It’s sad to think we can never do that again,
I can’t stand the thought of not having my mum near
But in my heart, I know, she will always be here,
My mum will be listening to me now, trying to make her proud
And she will mutter under her breath, ‘I thought it was going to be clear and loud’
A rose once grew
where all could see,
sheltered beside
a garden wall,
And as the days passed
swiftly by,
it spread its branches, straight and tall...
One day, a beam of light
shone through
a crevice that had
opened wide ~
The rose bent gently
toward its warmth
then passed beyond
to the other side
Now, you who deeply
feel its loss,
be comforted ~ the rose blooms there ~
its beauty even greater now,
nurtured by
God's own loving care.
God seems to take home those whom are needed the most here, but mostly because they are needed somewhere else and the comfort of that is when you close your eyes and see your mom calling your name arms wide open then you may see what has been such a difficult understanding up until that moment. May peace be with you and your family now and always
A PASSER BYE
I AM SO SORRY 4 YOUR LOSS OF YOUR LOVELY MUM WE HAD AVERY DEAR FRIEND HANG HIM SELF IN JULY HE WAS 29 ALLWAYS SMILING ITS SO HEART BREAKING GOD GIVE YOU THE STRENGTH TO COME TO TERMS WITH THIS TRAGIDY WHAT EVER REASON SHE HAD SHE DIDNT DO IT TO HURT YOU SHE IS AT PEACE NOW NOTHING CAN HURT HER ANY MORE ALL MY LOVE TO YOU AND YOUR FAMILY GOD BLESS YOU GIRLS YOUR IN MY THOUGHTS XXXX LESLEY
Don't grieve for me, for now I'm free
I'm following the path God has laid you see.
I took his hand when I heard His call
I turned my back and left it all.
I could not stay another day,
To laugh, to love, to work or play.
Tasks left undone must stay that way.
I found peace at the close of day.
If my parting has left a void
Then fill it with remembered joys.
A friendship shared, a laugh, a kiss,
O yes, these things I too will miss.
Be not burdened with times of sorrow.
I wish you the sunshine of tomorrow.
My life's been full, I savored much,
Good friends, good times, a loved one's touch.
Perhaps my time seemed all too brief,
Don't lengthen it now with undue grief.
Lift up your hearts and peace to thee,
God wanted me now, He set me free.
Rest peacefully in heaven's special garden debbie. xxxx
Love to your family xxxx
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